Follow the System Theme in egui (#4860)

* Some initial progress towards #4490

This PR just moves `Theme` and the "follow system theme" settings to
egui and adds `RawInput.system_theme`.
A follow-up PR can then introduce the two separate `dark_mode_style` and
`light_mode_style` fields on `Options`.


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### Breaking changes

The options `follow_system_theme` and `default_theme` has been moved
from `eframe` into `egui::Options`, settable with `ctx.options_mut`

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Co-authored-by: Emil Ernerfeldt <emil.ernerfeldt@gmail.com>

crates/eframe/src/native/glow_integration.rs

@@ -228,14 +228,11 @@ impl GlowWinitApp {
             }
         }
 
-        let system_theme =
-            winit_integration::system_theme(&glutin.window(ViewportId::ROOT), &self.native_options);
         let painter = Rc::new(RefCell::new(painter));
 
         let integration = EpiIntegration::new(
             egui_ctx,
             &glutin.window(ViewportId::ROOT),
-            system_theme,
             &self.app_name,
             &self.native_options,
             storage,
@@ -281,9 +278,6 @@ impl GlowWinitApp {
             }
         }
 
-        let theme = system_theme.unwrap_or(self.native_options.default_theme);
-        integration.egui_ctx.set_visuals(theme.egui_visuals());
-
         if self
             .native_options
             .viewport
@@ -1120,6 +1114,7 @@ impl GlutinWindowContext {
                 viewport_id,
                 event_loop,
                 Some(window.scale_factor() as f32),
+                window.theme(),
                 self.max_texture_side,
             )
         });